Oops! How to deal with mistakes

Oops! How to deal with mistakes

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Oops! How to deal with mistakes

Mistakes – big and small – everyone makes them. So how can you make the best of a situation when things go wrong?

Fess up

A small mistake can soon start to spiral out of a control. The earlier you can admit you’ve made a mistake, the easier it is to deal with. The best thing to do is to speak to the person directly involved – be it your teacher, boss, parent, relative or friend. If that seems too big a step, talk to someone who can support you first. Keeping things to yourself can make them seem worse than they really are.

Say sorry

A straight-forward apology, recognising that you’ve made a mistake, goes a long way to patching things up. Take responsibility for your own actions and don’t blame others. Most people are very forgiving – after all, everyone makes mistakes.

Put things right

What can you do to fix the situation? Are there any simple solutions? If you can’t think what to do yourself, ask the person affected if there’s anything you can do to put things right.

“The good thing about all mistakes, large or small, is that they provide superb learning opportunities,” Peter Honey


“Inside every mistake, there are lessons waiting to get out,” says Dr Peter Honey, who helps companies and employees work better. With success, he says, people tend to celebrate when things go well without always understanding why. With mistakes, people are more likely to work out why things go wrong so they can avoid the same thing happening again. “The good thing about all mistakes, large or small, is that they provide superb learning opportunities.”

Move on

Don’t dwell on what’s done – you can’t change what’s happened but you can shape your future.  Handling mistakes or wrong decisions well is a really valuable skill. In the world of work, this is often talked about in terms such as resilience (bouncing back), perseverance (not giving up), and self-development (learning) – all part of building your wider experience.  Leave any negative thoughts behind and focus instead on taking your positive next step.

Finally, don’t despair – what seems awful at the time, can be something to laugh about or make for a really good story years later!

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Last updated: 20th May 2021